The Wisdomous

The Wisdomous

The ethics of productivity during grief
He doesn't heal. He just keeps moving. Is that enough? Is that even ethical?
 • Ivan Nyagatare
It's time for less self-help and more self examination (stop fixing, start looking).
Why Your 15th Productivity Book Isn't Working
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Can work truly numb the sting of loss?
“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.” — C.S. Lewis.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Why do we feel guilty for resting, even when we are exhausted?
You…yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Why do we cry when we are angry, not just when we are sad?
“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” — Malcolm Forbes
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Why does receiving a compliment sometimes make us uncomfortable instead of happy?
"The most common form of despair is not being who you are." — Søren Kierkegaard
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Why do we feel most lonely in the moments right after socializing?
“The eternal loneliness of the human being is never more sharply felt than after pleasure." — Gustave Flaubert
 • Ivan Nyagatare
The Anatomy of Heartbreak and Creating from Pain
A dissection of the creative impulse in ruin
 • Ivan Nyagatare
The Beauty of Arguments
The arguments that stay with you are rarely about the thing you're arguing about.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Four frictions that challenge our deepest convictions
The beliefs that shape us most are the last ones we see.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
Podcasts
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The Guide On The Side
01: Why do I see Anthony Bourdain's quotes everywhere on the internet ?

Creative

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Why does receiving a compliment sometimes make us uncomfortable instead of happy?
"The most common form of despair is not being who you are." — Søren Kierkegaard
 • Ivan Nyagatare
What do we sacrifice trying to stay current with everything?
The cost of keeping up is higher than the cost of being behind.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
The work that reaches everyone changes no one
Reach is a vanity metric dressed up as a growth strategy. Depth is the quiet engine behind every creator who actually lasts.
 • Ivan Nyagatare

Flow

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The inability to speak your emotions is not a failure of character.
Write your way through the silence until you see
 • Ivan Nyagatare
There is no award for resilience
No finish line. No certificate.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
You Are Not Hard to Love.
They Just Didn’t Know How!
 • Ivan Nyagatare

Digital

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An amateur has amateur habits
A professional has professional habits!
 • Ivan Nyagatare
These aren’t distractions from life; they are life.
Sometimes it just sits beside you, waiting to be seen.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
This is my contribution to humanity, find yours!
Find yours, not by waiting for the perfect opportunity, but by giving what only you can provide, right now.
 • Ivan Nyagatare
The Wisdomous
The Wisdomous
Gentle reflections for those walking the path of growth, creativity, and emotional clarity.
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