The Next Version of You Is Already Whispering
"The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." — Joseph Campbell
Becoming doesn't always announce itself.
It doesn't always come with big changes or grand decisions. Sometimes, it starts as a whisper, a quiet knowing in your chest, a restlessness you can't explain, a growing discomfort with what once felt like home.
It's easy to ignore at first.
You tell yourself you're overthinking. You try to be grateful for what you have. You remind yourself that things are fine.
But fine doesn't feel like freedom and something inside you knows.
Knows that your next chapter is approaching, not like a storm, but like a tide. Gentle. Persistent. Inevitable.
The next version of you is already whispering.
Not because the current version is broken or wrong. But because you've grown. Quietly. Slowly. In the in-between. And now, your life needs to catch up to your soul.
That voice you're hearing? That feeling you keep pushing aside? It's not impulsive. It's not reckless. It's the truth you've been too busy or too afraid to honour.
But you're not behind. You're just arriving.
You're waking up to what you're no longer willing to carry. You're noticing what no longer fits, not because it's bad, but because it's not you anymore.
You're outgrowing roles, relationships, routines.
Not dramatically. Just naturally. Like shedding skin. Like exhaling.
And it's okay to grieve what you're leaving behind, even if it's what you once prayed for. Even if it's what kept you safe. Even if it made sense for a version of you that no longer needs it.
Growth doesn't always look like gaining.
Sometimes it looks like softening. Sometimes it looks like standing still. Sometimes it looks like leaving, even when you don't know what you're walking into next. Because becoming isn't about having all the answers.
It's about listening to the truth that keeps tapping on your shoulder. As Maya Angelou once said, "There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."
That truth might sound like:
This relationship is no longer nourishing me.
This job is costing me my joy.
This version of my life looks good, but doesn't feel good.
This pattern is keeping me small.
That's not self-sabotage. That's self-trust.