Archive - The Wisdomous

You Can’t Outwork Someone Devoted to a Better Thing

Working hard on the wrong thing is still working hard, but it’s a slow form of failure, made worse by the fact that it feels like progress.

Jan 8

Why Intensity Is Overrated and Consistency Isn’t

Intensity makes a good story. Consistency makes progress

Jan 6

This Year, Pick Three Things

Why choosing less might finally move us forward

Jan 4

2026: The Year of Slowing Down.

I am tired in a way that makes me want to befriend emptiness rather than fill it.

Jan 1

December 2025

Please don't make everything personal

You’re taking responsibility for narratives they’re not even telling.

Dec 31, 2025

25 lessons from 2025

Twenty-five reflections on growth, loss, and clarity

Dec 31, 2025

Why do symbolic threats feel physical?

We need to remember that emotions are data!

Dec 29, 2025

So stop trusting the plan and start trusting the detours.

The path isn’t fixed. The path is made by walking.

Dec 26, 2025

Does time heal everything?

Healing is a partnership between time and intention.

Dec 24, 2025

This is the equation of healing that you need!

Because you are not defined by what happened to you in the past.

Dec 22, 2025

The inability to speak your emotions is not a failure of character.

Write your way through the silence until you see

Dec 19, 2025

Why we must narrow our world to change it.

You are no longer a scattered beam of light; you are a laser.

Dec 17, 2025

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