The Wisdomous | Ivan N. | Substack

Most People Are Neither For You Nor Against You

They are simply for themselves.

Aug 6

depth over display!

When you slow down, you can hear yourself again.

Aug 5

How To Not Override Ourselves.

When no is an option.

Jul 30

Stop Collecting Red Flags Like Souvenirs

As potential is not partnership and charm is not character.

Jul 29

Softness is strength unafraid to feel

So do not shrink your softness.

Jul 21

This Version of Me Is Allowed to Be Loved

This version of me is not a mistake.

Jul 18

You Don’t Have to Carry Everything

Let someone else hold space for you.

Jul 11

How To Outgrow Who You Used to Be

Growth doesn't always look graceful.

Jul 11

You Don’t Need to Be Certain to Move Forward

Presence allows you to respond, not react.

Jul 9

You Are Not Hard to Love.

They Just Didn’t Know How!

Jul 8

Trust Is Built in Tiny, Quiet Moments

Trust is rarely born or broken in these cinematic extremes.

Jul 7

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